Tuesday, August 07, 2007

O RLY? Redux

So, apparently if a woman can't get dances and isn't willing to go around asking for them, she should learn to lead so she doesn't sit out.

1) Upbraiding a woman for not seeking out leaders is sort of hypocritical coming from a guy who complains about having to dole out "gift dances" to women, no?

2) Learning to lead is something you should do because you want to experience the dance a different way. It is as much a learning curve as following. To suggest that a woman leads because she can't get dances sort of devalues all the work, which is again a little hypocritical coming from a guy who takes multiple privates a week (for all the good it does him).

3) Who still says "bug up your butt"? Is this The Waltons suddenly?

4) Seriously, "gift dances".

5) Also, apparently he doesn't like Ney Melo's style of embrace and is headed to Buenos Aires.



Of course, this is just my two cents, since Caroline's response is delightfully profane and direct and took care of all the major points. Click the link above, scroll down, and enjoy.


Anonymous said...

But 'truth be told', the followers in BsAs can't wait to me 'driven like a Porsche' by the nine month wonder. I will check him out in Denver but I think we all know what I will find.

froggie said...

Why, no, inviting a leader is not asking for a gift dance, it only becomes so if the leader is much more skilled.

Inkslinger said...

One of these days I'm going to vent about our MVP (Most Visible Pretender) and when I do, the plume of steam will be visible for Miles....